Beware of how threats and boons of theocracies (their heaven-hell threats) color our views. Beware (try to see) how brain-washed we are.
In Heathenry there are not any threats and boons, as our good old traditions are all about our evolutionary life.
Our heathen yule, and yule-tide, can never be used to spoil the joy and fun for little kids.
Be very careful when it comes to thoughtless conditioning of the dark ages.
Do not blindly and thoughtlessly copy tools for obedience.
Only love and care raises healthy kids.
Teach the kids heathenry and purpose of life, which is NOT obedience to stupid rules.